Best-And-Worst-Ever Friendships

How one defines FRIENDSHIP... To me, true friends are valuable, constructive, faithful and trustworthy. I have barely countable good friends in my life, I think it is because of I was quite an introvert back to the school age, I always stayed out of the circles and hardly joined any new groups. Despite of these natures, back then I still managed to mingle with some friends who still stay the same till now. As I mentioned before in my post, I do cherish their friendship with me and I'm very blessed and glad to have them in my life. I still feel sorry for them when they called for some outings and most of the time I didn't show up, my priority was always given to my love. But when love was broken, they were the first to show up and give me care... Sorry gals, may bad. Now i'm married and have moved to Europe, we are still in touch but not that often like before. Everybody is moving on their life, some striving for a brilliant career and some study hard 24/7 for their better future. Here in Romania, I don't have any friends and I don't think I'm gonna have them. Well, it seems superficial to me... it's not the words can describe. Anyway, I have my sweetheart here to take 101% care of me, I always drown in his infinite love and he always makes sure that our days are full with happiness. He is my most faithful friend and love.

OK... the worst! Yeah I bet Iris will know this better... haha!

This one, a woman in her mid 30s, somehow cheated our money and very irresponsible on her music lessons she provided. At first she was very enthusiastic about the friendship and slowly she gained our trust. The relationship moved on until me and Iris became skeptical about her 'friendship' was actually supposed to be meant 'lesbianship'!? Haha... I dunno the truth, she always says she is straight and has a boyfriend and is getting married soon, but the gentleman is always invisible to us. Well we still choosed to remain as friends and wtf we even had music lessons with her for bout 2 years, which have led a complete breakdown of trust in our friendship eventually. Me and Iris almost gained nothing but had wasted our money as well as our precious time on this.

First, she pretended to be a professional teacher but in fact she didn't know much about music theory...duh! Second, she always had incredible high frequency of cancellation and postponement of classes (that's why I cancelled my exam, lack of confidence and knowledge). Third, she never ever returned the refund of the cancellation fee... God knows if she ever registered me for the exam, or had used my money for her own purpose. Forth, she took my money (RM180) which she was supposed to buy a reference book for me and until now I don't see anything returned. Fifth, she just turns a blind eye or a deaf ear whenever I confronted her about this matter! She gives tons of lame excuses and empty promises by all mean to drag on everything till we all are really fed up with her retarded behavior.

Sigh... You don't have to do this to us. If you have any difficulties just let us know, please don't play the hiding game. You demolished the friendships by everything you've done... sorry we cannot trust you no more!

I hope you see this, and you'd better to give us an explanation before we take further action.

It irritates me every time I think of you!